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"Nasasaktan tayo kapag nagmahal. Minsan sa sobrang sakit, ang hirap tumayo muli. Ang hirap ituwid ng mga desisyon mo. We lose our mind, sometimes. ‘Coz these happen when we fall and hit something hard. It’s normal, don’t be afraid to fall.”
"All my friends have life of their own now. They won’t have time to look after an immature like me. I have to mature. I have to look after myself. I have to be the master of my emotions. I have to help myself stand every time I fall. It’s not forgetting them. It’s being strong enough to withstand the first wave of problems/challenges knowing they are only a step behind."
"Silence is the hardest reply to interpret. Most will say, silence means YES. But it’s not. It may be 'go on, I'm listening' or 'just shut up, I don't actually care'. In either case, ask if its alright to go on or just pause and wait for them to say anything.”
I wonder how Snape managed to keep all those feelings to himself for so many years. How he manage to love without asking to be loved in return. How to bear the hurts and the urge to say,’it’s always been you’. ‘Coz right at this very moment, I wanted to shout and inform the world that it’s still you, I still love you. After all these years. I love you.
Paano mo susubukan ang isang bagay kung sa simula palang given na ang lahat ng dahilan para madiscourage ka?
I’ve been in this situation and it’s never ever getting any easy in the second time. Hindi porket pangalawang ulit mo ng gagawin ang isang bagay ay madali na ito. Ayoko magkamali, ayoko mabigo pero sa simula palang bigo na e. :(
At ngayon nga’y tinamaan na naman ako ng saltik right before a major exam.
Recently, my friend talked to me, asking for some advice. Love matters… Awkward man humingi sa akin ng advice about love kasi I never had mutual relationship with anyone before, I almost had one but given the circumstances before (yeah yeah), I quit.
This friend of mine, di nya ako kilala personally. that explains kaya sa akin siya humingi ng advice and it turned out, sabi niya, I’m good at giving advice.
People says I’m good at giving advice. The best advice is not read in books, nor searched in google. Best advice is learned from the hardest lessons in life, through experiences, through joy and pain. :)
I asked him, kung mahal niya. Sabi niya” “Hindi kasi hindi naman kami.”. Then I asked, “Kailangan ba may ‘kami’ kapag nagmahal?”
Hindi naman diba? If you love someone, you just love him/her without expecting him/her to love you in return. I’ve learned this before and that’s what I did. I love in silence, then I confessed it. I tried my best to gain a ‘yes’ and it’s only later in this story of love of mine that I’ve realized, I may have gained that ‘yes’. Without a formal ‘yes’ but the trust given to me.
Love isn’t about being answered or being together in life. Love is trust. Trusting of one’s self to a person, trusting of his whole being to that person. And it isn’t said, it’s felt and that’s when I did wrong. I kept on looking for words, for signs but never looked deep down in everything that had happened, I received a ‘yes’. And then I quit.
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