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Paano mo susubukan ang isang bagay kung sa simula palang given na ang lahat ng dahilan para madiscourage ka?
I’ve been in this situation and it’s never ever getting any easy in the second time. Hindi porket pangalawang ulit mo ng gagawin ang isang bagay ay madali na ito. Ayoko magkamali, ayoko mabigo pero sa simula palang bigo na e. :(
At ngayon nga’y tinamaan na naman ako ng saltik right before a major exam.
Recently, my friend talked to me, asking for some advice. Love matters… Awkward man humingi sa akin ng advice about love kasi I never had mutual relationship with anyone before, I almost had one but given the circumstances before (yeah yeah), I quit.
This friend of mine, di nya ako kilala personally. that explains kaya sa akin siya humingi ng advice and it turned out, sabi niya, I’m good at giving advice.
People says I’m good at giving advice. The best advice is not read in books, nor searched in google. Best advice is learned from the hardest lessons in life, through experiences, through joy and pain. :)
I asked him, kung mahal niya. Sabi niya” “Hindi kasi hindi naman kami.”. Then I asked, “Kailangan ba may ‘kami’ kapag nagmahal?”
Hindi naman diba? If you love someone, you just love him/her without expecting him/her to love you in return. I’ve learned this before and that’s what I did. I love in silence, then I confessed it. I tried my best to gain a ‘yes’ and it’s only later in this story of love of mine that I’ve realized, I may have gained that ‘yes’. Without a formal ‘yes’ but the trust given to me.
Love isn’t about being answered or being together in life. Love is trust. Trusting of one’s self to a person, trusting of his whole being to that person. And it isn’t said, it’s felt and that’s when I did wrong. I kept on looking for words, for signs but never looked deep down in everything that had happened, I received a ‘yes’. And then I quit.
Expected ko na ang sobrang pressure sa studies plus duties as org president. Tanggap ko na din na kakabit ng pagiging officer ang tila public help desk sa dami ng nahingi ng payo, tulong at mala call center agent na chatbox sa daming tanong pero I under-estimated everything.
Hindi ko akalangin ganito ka itetreat ng mga tao. Akala nila alam mo ang lahat, ultimo schedule ng prof, schedule ng pasok, kilala mo ang kung sino sinong pontio pilato. Akala nila ikaw ang number alila ng department niyo to the point na ikaw ang mag aadjust para sa kanila; ikaw yung mapepressure kapag malapit na ang deadline pero sila petiks lang; sila na ang dahilan kung bakit inabot ng deadline. Sila na ang tingin sa’yo mataas pero kung ituring ka katulong nila. Sila na kahit trabaho nila, ikaw ang gagawa. Sila na kahit pagkakamali nila, ikaw ang aako. Sila ang tingin sa’yo ok lang lahat kahit anong sabihin nila, hindi ka maooffend. Dahil sa iisang dhailan na, PRESIDENT KA.
Tao lang ako at kahit sa napakasimpleng depinisyon ng tao, tao talaga ako.
Hindi ganito ko pinicture out ang aking pamumuno. Maluwag, transparent at approachable officers. Pero anong nagyari? Officers na lumaki ang ulo, na nadidisrespect ka na at ibang students and in the course of your leadership, nagbabago ang identity mo. Nawawala yung dating ikaw. You’re turning like the previous one, the one that you dislike.
Nakakababa ng pagkatao maging president. Nakakawala ng pagkamakatao ang presidency lalo’t higit hindi ka itinuturing na tao ng mga pinamumunuan mo.
Enrollment palang, kakasimula palang ng taon, ganito ka na. Get some life!
Presidency, d ko akalaing ganito kahirap, kapressure, kademanding. Yung position mo, hindi ka makaimik basta basta kasi lahat nag-aantay na magkamali ka. Parang konting flaw mo, issue na. bawal ka magtaas ng boses, bawal kang sumagot ng pabalagbag. Dapat alam mo lahat, dapat magaling kang manghula. Dapat ready kang hindi pansinin.
Ganun ba ako kadali idisrespect, idesregard. I feel like I’m president for no reason. para lang ma-fill yung postition. Ginagwa mo lahat ng makakaya mo pero there are just things that need efforts not only from you pero you cant point that out kasi friends mo sila, kasi baka mamisjudged ka.
Idagdag pa na feeling mo mag-isa ka lang. Wala kang masabihan ng problema mo. walang immediate na masabihan ng problema. Someone who knows what’s happening. Basta ang hirap.
2013 is definitely not our year. The water snake seems unfriendly towards my family. T’was actually a good start but as of now, things have turned the wrong way.
Expectations died. Hopes and dreams changed. Fighting here and there, non stop arguments and banging of doors became the music of every night. It’s hard to be in this family when the water snake is around. It’s hard to be the first born son, the snake feels like coiling around your legs.
It’s hard to move but you must move.
One thing is for sure, we will greet the wood horse together next year!
Sometimes the pressure is too much. The conflicts between what they like, what the elders want and what you prefer is just so confusing that my mind says ‘just quit’. But I kept on going, you know why? Because I believe, He gives the hardest fight to his strongest soldiers. Too cliche but I swear if He isn’t around I will be lost. :)
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